“One afternoon back in January 2016, when I dropped my little boy to nursery, the nursery manager and deputy manager called me into a side room and presented me with a document, together with some drawings that my son had drawn. I recognised the drawing straight away, as it was a recent one. It was of a man with a knife. My son had told me it was ‘daddy cutting a cucumber’ so I told the school managers this straight away. They were unconvinced. "Well, that’s not what he said to us. He told us it was a cooker bomb," the nursery manager replied.
I was blindsided by this. My son has never talked about bombs at home. I was so confused and upset. At that point, I didn’t immediately associate his pronunciation of cucumber as “cukkabum” with a “cooker bomb”. I’d never
even heard of such a thing.
The school then showed me two other scribbles by my son. They said he
talked about “pulling a string in Africa.” I explained that my neighbour’s cat
used to visit our home frequently and my children often played with the cat by
pulling a string. Sadly, the poor cat got run over and, not wanting upset them
by telling them that he had died, I told the kids that the cat had gone to Africa
to be with his family.
“Prove yourself innocent”
Again, the nursery manager dismissed my explanation and told me that they
were referring me to Channel. I had no idea what Channel was, but assumed
it was social services. I asked the manager if this was the case and she told
me that yes, they did work together and that they would help me raise my
children in the ‘right’ way. By this time I was in tears and pleaded with her not
to refer me. But her reply did little to console me.
"Your kids might not be taken off you. You can prove yourself innocent," she
I was distraught! I continued to plead with her. She asked me what he was
watching on television and I told her that he liked his superheroes, Teenage
Mutant Ninja Turtles and Power Rangers, but I would put a stop to this
immediately if it would help (and I actually did go home and do this!). I even
banned their Disney movies, as the nursery manager described one of my
son’s drawings as that of a train blowing up. Incidentally, this is the opening
scene in Toy Story 3.
Nothing was going to help me that day. She told me I’d already been referred
and I had to “sign the referral form”, which I declined to do. I couldn’t – it just
felt wrong to sign a document I did not agree with. My son, according to the
nursery’s own description is a very ‘gentle’ child. I couldn’t accept the things
that they were now suggesting about him.
I left the meeting and went home. My husband was away, so I telephoned him
and explained the situation. He told me not to worry and reminded me that our
boy always says “cukkabum” when he means “cucumber,” so obviously they’d
misheard him. It then became clear to me what had happened.
"Cucumber, not cooker bomb"
I called the nursery manager immediately, with a renewed sense of hope and
told her about his mispronunciation of the word “cucumber”. My son was still
at the nursery and I told her to go and show him a cucumber so that it all
becomes clear. However, the nursery manager was not willing to discuss
things any further and told me that my son had already been “referred” and it
was out of her hands. She then asked me again about signing the document
and I once again refused. She informed me that she would “have to put down
I felt really pressured but I’d spoken to my husband and my sister and they
both advised me against signing something I am not comfortable with. So I
held my ground and I told her firmly I wasn’t going to sign it as I didn’t agree
with it. I hung up at the point and felt really worried about how I was going to
find someone who could help me. I felt bullied and was ready to ask the police
for help. I didn’t realise then what I realise now: this is state supported
I frantically called people who might be able to help me. I knew the school
was wrong. Had I not been a Muslim Asian, I wouldn’t be in this position.
Extract from: http://seekershub.org/blog/2016/03/cooker-bomb- radicalisation/